Whenever we declare someone has offended us we are essentially saying they are responsible for our feelings, not us. We are attempting to hand over the keys to our experience of life and are confessing to an illusion that what someone says or does is what determines our own feelings, which is simply not true.

All the time I refuse to see it is I who is creating my experience of life I am a victim to the way life works.

The moment I see and own my creative power I am free.

Shifting from victim to owner need not mean I do anything different other than recognise how the system works - inside out.

“You have offended me” can never be true, only “I choose to feel offended by you.”

Which begs the question, why ever choose to feel that way?